Friday, October 05, 2007

No Means Something Else Better is on the Way

Have you ever been so in love with a guy that you thought, "If this does not work out, I'll just die?" Have you been there? I bet many of you have, then it doesn't work out, you mope and cry for a while but "Surprise" you survive. Each day gets better. You start to hang out more with your friends and then one day meet someone else.

What about being in love with what you thought was the dream job and getting turned down? You just knew after all the meetings that you were the top candidate but then the news came that it just did not work out. Oh yeah, you are a little devastated but just as with your break up, you somehow go on. Go figure. Could it be possible that there is life after the word "NO?"

Actually, hearing the word no or being turned down for something could be good. Most of you reading this are probably thinking, "Yeah right," but it can be. You could get turned down for one job only to find a better opportunity a few weeks later. A boyfriend breaking up with you can leave you free to meet your soulmate. This can happen. I have even experienced this a few times in my life I am happy to say.

So, the moral of this story is: No, is not always a bad thing. Sometimes may be the best thing that could ever happen to us.